Forty Mondays of grocery runs, and what we stopped doing
We drive 61 boxes a week to people who can't get to a pantry during work hours. Here is the one rule we dropped, and what we need next.
Know what the groups you care about are actually doing, and who else is behind them. Give when a story moves you.
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An example: these groups and people are fictional.
We drive 61 boxes a week to people who can't get to a pantry during work hours. Here is the one rule we dropped, and what we need next.
“I drive the Monday route, so I see every box go out. Rosa posts what came in and what ran short. I give monthly because it's the one place I can check.”
A month of logging who comes when, and the two bakeries that said yes.
Groups near you write about what they tried, what worked and what’s next. You follow the work itself, not a fundraising email.
You give at the end of a story you just read, once or monthly. Every.org sends the tax receipt.
A few sentences from people you know, on the group’s own page. Yours helps the next person decide.
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To help a friend or answer an emergency: GoFundMe, Facebook fundraisers
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